i think my wife is cheating

quick kurt · 12-09-2012, 08:33 AM

Get a new GPS equipped phone and hide it in her car, then check her story against what the GPS says. On a better note, others could be right, could just be Christmas shopping for you too.

Raven7 · 12-09-2012, 08:39 AM

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Originally Posted by stop2think

Good luck with that. Been there done that. Although having the judge say in court (as I was representing myself) "shouldn't he be the one with the lawyer going after you," was one of the single greatest moments of my life.

I know what your saying. Women all of a sudden think you owe them the world! My ex and I used one lawyer just to do the paper work. I really didn't fight anything cause I knew the law was not on my side and was not gonna waste thousands on a lawyer!
I even loaded the truck myself 75% to get her on her way with her stuff!

crudmoe · 12-09-2012, 08:47 AM

Women want to feel wanted..more than anything, but her being out late without letting you know whats up or without you doesn't sound healthy for ur relationship, but it depends if she does that on the regular or once in a while....

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BlackShadow · 12-09-2012, 09:27 AM

Found out my wife was screwing some other guy right before I deployed to Iraq about two years ago. The deployment probably saved our marriage, the time away and me having fun with AirForce ladies. Talking out our problems via Skype and emails, IMs. I cam home really ready to work on our relationship. I agree with crudmoe, women want to feel wanted, they like attention. Anything from, "You look nice today" to planning a surprise Birthday party. I didn't really give her the attention she was hungry for. Now, still married, and have a baby coming in May. Best advice, do want you think will make you happy.

***KMac*** · 12-09-2012, 09:42 AM

Who Christmas shops until 4:30 am? Whatever she's up to, it's not good. The lack of basic courtesy to just let you know where she's at and what's up if she's gone for that amount of time at that time on night is not just a "signal", it's a blaring siren and flashing red light!! If you've texted/called her and she hasn't responded then something is either "wrong" wrong, or something is up. If you know for a fact she is alright, then send her a text and tell her her shit is on the front porch, get it before it rains. And when she gets there, the first time she raises her voice call the cops and report your own domestic disturbance. You need to be the first one to call (oh, and don't do anything......don't raise your voice, don't be threatenting, nothing....nada) so she is the one that is the "problem" in the cops eyes. More often than not, they're gonna tell the "problem" to beat feet and find some other place for now. Definitely get the ball rolling in your direction from the get-go.

WarMachine · 12-09-2012, 09:45 AM

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Originally Posted by KMac

Who Christmas shops until 4:30 am? Whatever she's up to, it's not good. The very basic courtesy to just let you know where she's at and what's up if she's gone for that amount of time at that time on night is not just a "signal", it's a blaring siren and flashing red light!! If you've texted/called her and she hasn't responded then something is either "wrong" wrong, or something is up. If you know for a fact she is alright, then send her a text and tell her her shit is on the front porch, get it before it rains. And when she gets there, the first time she raises her voice call the cops and report your own domestic disturbance. You need to be the first one to call (oh, and don't do anything......don't raise your voice, don't be threatenting, nothing....nada) so she is the one that is the "problem" in the cops eyes. More often than not, they're gonna tell the "problem" to beat feet and find some other place for now. Definitely get the ball rolling in your direction from the get-go.

I didn't beat my ex wife to the punch and it fvcked my world up for 2 yrs. Don't know if you can tell but i'm a bit jaded

BlackShadow · 12-09-2012, 09:47 AM

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Originally Posted by KMac

If you know for a fact she is alright, then send her a text and tell her her shit is on the front porch, get it before it rains. And when she gets there, the first time she raises her voice call the cops and report your own domestic disturbance. You need to be the first one to call (oh, and don't do anything......don't raise your voice, don't be threatenting, nothing....nada) so she is the one that is the "problem" in the cops eyes. More often than not, they're gonna tell the "problem" to beat feet and find some other place for now. Definitely get the ball rolling in your direction from the get-go.

I like this plan for sure!

BigPoppa · 12-09-2012, 09:48 AM

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Originally Posted by quick kurt

Get a new GPS equipped phone and hide it in her car, then check her story against what the GPS says. On a better note, others could be right, could just be Christmas shopping for you too.

A coworker and friend used one of these. He took apart the glove box and hid it back in the dash behind it. It works if you have a smart phone to track it. They are now divorced, she was creepin' and lying about it.

BlackShadow · 12-09-2012, 10:05 AM

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Originally Posted by BigPoppa

A coworker and friend used one of these. He took apart the glove box and hid it back in the dash behind it. It works if you have a smart phone to track it. They are now divorced, she was creepin' and lying about it.

Awesome! I just got a hold of her phone records. She wasn't texting or calling me 30 some times a day.

BeaverPuncher · 12-09-2012, 10:09 AM

Maybe shes hurt? 2pm to 4:30 am?

If she does come home tell her to pack her sheot and leave and she will have papers to sign soon. If she starts acting crazy use the KMAC method.

WarMachine · 12-09-2012, 10:10 AM

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Originally Posted by BeaverPuncher

Maybe shes hurt? 2pm to 4:30 am?

If she does come home tell her to pack her sheot and leave and she will have papers to sign soon. If she starts acting crazy use the KMAC method.

he lets her in the house he's fvcked, run the kmac option first.

BeaverPuncher · 12-09-2012, 10:13 AM

Option two would be to sit on the front porch with a shovel and and some duct tape.

BlackShadow · 12-09-2012, 10:14 AM

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Originally Posted by BeaverPuncher

Maybe shes hurt? 2pm to 4:30 am?

If she does come home tell her to pack her sheot and leave and she will have papers to sign soon. If she starts acting crazy use the KMAC method.

Probably her beaver is hurt?!

WarMachine · 12-09-2012, 10:15 AM

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Originally Posted by BeaverPuncher

Option two would be to sit on the front porch with a shovel and and some duct tape.

BeaverPuncher · 12-09-2012, 10:15 AM

I was just going from the angle of if its out of her character then that might be a option .

BlackShadow · 12-09-2012, 10:19 AM

[announcer]
Meet Grady, a twenty-nine year old construction worker.
After coming home from a hard day's work,
he walks in the door of his trailer park home
to find his wife in bed with another man.
("WHAT THE ****?!?!")
("Grady!!")

[Dr. Dre]
Alright calm down, relax, start breathin..

[Eminem]
**** that shit, you just caught this bitch cheatin
While you at work she's with some dude tryin to get off?!
**** slittin her throat, CUT THIS BITCH'S HEAD OFF!!!

[Dr. Dre]
Wait! What if there's an explanation for this shit?
(What? She tripped? Fell? Landed on his dick?!)
Alright Shady, maybe he's right Grady
But think about the baby before you get all crazy

[Eminem]
Okay! Thought about it, still wanna stab her?
Grab her by the throat, get your daughter and kidnap her?
That's what I did, be smart, don't be a retard
You gonna take advice from somebody who slapped DEE BARNES??!

WarMachine · 12-09-2012, 10:20 AM

Blk08R1 · 12-09-2012, 10:55 AM

If both of you have Voxer you can see where she is at.

stop2think · 12-09-2012, 10:56 AM

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Originally Posted by crudmoe

Women want to feel wanted..more than anything,

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Not all women are spoiled materialistic biatches(although my ex-wife certainly was), but they all have an inherent need to be constantly complimented and to feel wanted. This has always been difficult for me because I am super independent, intrinsically confident, and not emotional at all. This pretty much sums up all my past relationships, and unfortunately my current one

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fjorn · 12-09-2012, 11:07 AM

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Originally Posted by BigPoppa

A coworker and friend used one of these. He took apart the glove box and hid it back in the dash behind it. It works if you have a smart phone to track it. They are now divorced, she was creepin' and lying about it.

Garmin has a trackable device:

https://buy.garmin.com/shop/shop.do?cID=209&pID=67686

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Originally Posted by BlackShadow

Awesome! I just got a hold of her phone records. She wasn't texting or calling me 30 some times a day.

My ex would text her best friend 100+ times a day and then wouldn't tell me anything when I'd ask her how her day was. Or, she'd say something along the lines of "I told you that already" if I inquired something. Yet, I had only been home 20 minutes and she hardly spoke to me at all that day.

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Originally Posted by stop2think

Not all women are spoiled materialistic biatches(although my ex-wife certainly was), but they all have an inherent need to be constantly complimented and to feel wanted. This has always been difficult for me because I am super independent, intrinsically confident, and not emotional at all.

Similar here. If they don't find it in the relationship they're in, they'll find it elsewhere.