[YamaFreak]

my girl and i are in a long distance relationship right know. she got mad at me the other day. about tuesday,
and we havent talked since then and its the next monday. we have never went this long with out talking. we were having trouble before this happend. and i think she might be cheating on me.

what should i do. please no smart ass remarks just good advice.

:machinegu :machinegu :machinegu :machinegu :boobies

 

[pegdrgr]

Have you tried to call her? If she is dodging your calls then that is a bad thing. If you are waiting for her to call you, then you should probably call her. Once you do start talking to her you may try asking her if she is cheating on you, honesty is always a productive approach. That way you get the problem out in the open and you can either move on or work on it.

Good luck man.

J

 

[Shakie]

Well I'm in the same LongDistance boat, kind of. Anyway I don't know how fat your piggy bank is, but maybe its time to have her visit or you visit her. Just an idea, if she is worth it, you'll do the right thing. If not well you know what they say....R1s get you laid.

 

[c_sparks_r1]

I feel your pain man. I'm in a long distance relationship too and it gets really hard at times. Trust me I know. How long have you been dating? If it has been for a long while I hope that she can trust you enough to talk to you about the whole cheating thing. Be careful how you bring it up though because if she hasn't been cheating on you she'll take it as a sign of not trusting her and could make things worse. (trust me I know) Another thing that works is just to admit you mistake, even if you didn't do anything wrong. I know it makes you feel like a dickless weenie not being able to stand up to your girlfriend, but she's mad at you for a reason, and if you want her to get over this that is the quickest way. (trust me I know) If all else fails get your ass out on your bike and got get another girl, It is an R1 afterall.
:beer :beer is another temp. solution

 

[SERious R1]

i can pretty much assure you that about 99% of long distance relationships fail...regardless if you love them with all your heart, it takes quite a toll on your emotions when there is not someone there physically...

whoever said "distance makes the heart grow fonder" can kiss my arse...

she may or may not be cheating on you but her feelings for you may have lessened due to the distance...

maybe now is not a good time for you guys...perhaps you should let her go and do both of you guys a favor and allow some time apart...maybe sometime down the road you will be brought back together...*OR* you can perservere and work it out with her but eventually i'm thinking you'll run into the same problems...its hard to work things out when that person is not face to face with you...

good luck, i know how hard it is...i know all too well...

 

[Wicked]

I have been in a long distance relationship for about 3 years now. Along the way, we have cheated on each other a couple of times, but honesty is best. Were married now and happier than ever. Just talk to her and be HONEST, admit your mistakes and surprise her now and then. :thumbup

 

[Robert R1]

She is not "cheating" on you. She's simply refering to the rule book:

Chapter 3, Paragraph 4:

"Area Code Rule:" Any person(s) involved in a Long Distance relationship spanning multiple Area Codes is entitled to fornicate with different partners as long as the subject's area code does not match that of either party involved in the aforementioned realtionship.

The rule works for you too, abuse it unwisely

 

[Anubis]

Yama Freak, I totally feel you man. I also am in a long distance relationship, except I'm married. Frickin' sux. You just have to be patient. I can almost guarantee I have it worse than you because I had some problems in the past. I won't get into that though. My wife totally hates my bike and she wants me to sell it. It's like I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place. Life's hard man, then you get married....

 

[brianb]

How are women like monkeys?
They don't let go of one branch until they have a hold of another.
Sorry for the comment but I have found it to be true.

 

[blue02]

Yamafreak,

That is a pretty painful situation you're in! I guess it all depends on much you trust her. I guess you really never know someone like you think you do? Just try not to over react until you know the truth.
If she is cheating, then i would get rid of her! Life is too short to put up with that crap:no There are way too many pretty women out there to let one screw you over!
Just my opinion.

 

[mocheeseplease]

Give me her number and I'll settle it all out 4 ya.

 

[turborl7]

Why do you assume she's cheating on you? because she hasn't called you? maybe she's just mad for now... This I'm not calling her stand-off isn't going to help your situation.:boobies

 

[TizicRacingR1]

Lets see, if an R1=babe magnet, and a your having woman problems...let the R1 help you out this situation, and thats how we make this situation mildly related to the R1 forum.....

If she cheats, you cheat, call it even, trust me you wont be feeling as bad.

also you can find the guy shes cheating on you wih and show off a little. that might not impress them, but shit it sure as hell makes you feel better:hellobye

 

[SneakyPeak78]

Sorry to hear about everything. My girl just broke up with me after over a year because I bought my 02 R1. And we live together! But I am moving out, R1 stays. She goes. But I did think about selling my bike for her. Actually, I'm still thinking about it. Really sucks to have to choose. Hope everything works out.

 

[markeddy]

Long distance relationships are pretty tough if there is no commitment there (i.e. engagement, marriage).

Age also plays a big part of it. My wife has been really good to me and patient. I have been really lucky to have a wife that really cares for me and my hobbies. Too bad she doesn't ride because that would be even better.

I tried talking her into taking the MSF safety course and then buying her a Ninja 250 to learn on but she is a bit undecided.

Anyway, good luck. Find someone who is close, wants to put the same effort into the relationship, likes or tolerates your hobbies, and cares about you for who you are and not something they want to turn you into.

 

[Smoken Joe]

Is she worth moving for or will she do it for you? If not then dump her. Long distance relationships dont work for long unless there is a strong commitment I have had a dozen and none of them owrked out even though we both tried for a wile. Give her a call one way or another and ask he the important questions or beter yet go there. Go there if you realy want to keep her I have moved just to get rid of girls it works.